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Somatic Psychotherapy & Trauma Counselling

 

Somatic Experiencing (SE)

 

The definition of “trauma” includes a wide range of experience: whether accidents or personal attacks; physical, emotional or sexual abuse; and also developmental or attachment (early childhood) trauma or neglect.  

 

Peter Levine, the founder of Somatic Experiencing and author of Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma, notes that trauma is fundamental to what interferes with our ability to be fully president, in the moiment. It is also a major factor that interferes with us finding or having healthy relationships.

 

Healing trauma therefore helps us to feel more alive - more fully present - and to be able to choose and have nurturing, loving, satisfying relationshipds, with others ... and also, most importantly, with ourselves. The good news is that as our trauma heals, we start to feel better and better, more than we coulkd have ever imagined. 

 

Primary or secondary trauma can also affect people who have witnessed trauma or even the aftermath of trauma. It may also affect those who work with clients who have experienced trauma, and who do not themselves have access to regular, effective trauma release therapy.

 

By utilising the tools and understanding of Somatic Experiencing I can help you resolve trauma, even complex trauma such as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

 

'Accumulated stress', which many people experience, and which may not involve an actual 'trauma' as such, can also be successfully managed using an SE approach.

 

What is Somatic Experiencing (SE)? How does it help heal trauma and PTSD?

 

Peter Levine says: “trauma here … trauma where?”, meaning that with effective therapy, the awful experience of living with trauma can be corrected.

 

There is increasing scientific evidence to show that the effects of trauma can be resolved so that individuals who have suffered trauma can be taught to easily and permanently develop a sense of safety and resilience, in which the debilitating associations of trauma are actually reversed.

 

The patterning of the original trauma acts like a domino effect. And so once the primary trauma is attended to, you may also actually resolve a whole host of other smaller traumas, meaning you are likely to end up feeling much better, overall, than you’ve ever felt before, not just after a session but permanently. As trauma is often inter-generational, healing our own wounds has deeper reverberations on many lovels (this talk is very informative about the connection between personal and transpersoinal trauma)

 

Many people who have experienced attack or accidents are aware that they suffer from the impacts of trauma. They may have had some trauma therapy, such as (cognitive behavioural therapy) CBT-based treatment, or even talk-based counselling, and found that they experienced some temporary, short or even medium–term relief.

 

However it can be very distressing, and depressing, if the underlying feelings and ramifications are nor addressed and resolved. You may feel hopeless, and that you are ‘stuck’ with these feelings for life, but that is not the case. Effective help is available ... and the very process of therapy, itself, is a nourishing and supporetive aspect of the healing. And having SE does not mean that you have to re-live trauma or terrible memories. One of the characteristics of the SE approach is that it does not re-traumatise. As we work with the way trauma is held in the body (the nervous system), and 'titrate' the treartment, you actually learn how to resolve the experiences without having to re-experience them.

 

SE addresses the underlying causes of suffering from trauma by addressing the neurophysiology the created the symptoms of trauma in the first place.

 

The “gift” of trauma.

 

Importantly, Somatic Experiencing (SE) is not like other modalities of trauma therapy - which can merely lessen symptoms in the short-to-medium term. SE tends to have fundamental, long-term healing outcomes.

 

An example which may help to illustrate how trauma – and SE – works is of someone who is high-functioning in many respects in their life and one day has an impact injury (a car accident is physical accident arte common triggers) and may suddenly feel like they’re having a ‘nervous breakdown’.

 

This ‘breakdown’ may be because the recent trauma triggers a deeply held body memory of  past trauma. Suddenly, the nervous system (which over time has developed ways of managing and coping with a history of smaller traumas) is pushed into overload.

 

Because Somatic Experiencing tends to the current, presenting trauma (which may be recent or something in your past), the whole nervous system can effectively be repaired, and past experiences of trauma and the associated distress can be resolved.

 

The nervous system is much more resilient than you ever imagined possible. By working with an SE practitioner you are ironing out ‘kinks’ you didn’t even (consciously) know were there.

 

This is why somatic practitioners often speak of “the gift of trauma”, because trauma may be the catalyst for a level of healing that may otherwise never been sought out, or even dreamed of.

 

This is true for very major traumatic experiences, for serious conditions like PTSD or for a lifetime of smaller traumas (that may not seem significant) but that nevertheless take a huge toll on our daily experience, until they are effectively addressed and healed.

 

How does Somatic Experiencing (SE) work?

 

Levine, an animal behaviourist recognized that animals in the wild recover from trauma and attack without the symptoms of stress and trauma experienced by people (or domestic animals).  In brief, because animals don’t experience the vulnerability accompanying the release of trauma (symptoms such as shame) their physical system is able to release the charge of the incomplete action effectively and permanently. In contrast, humans are conditioned not to discharge internalized feelings of shame, pain or hurt, which then get stored in our nervous system.

 

In trauma, rather than completing the incomplete action (executing a defensive responses such as orienting to danger, and then fighting or fleeing) our bodies oftern ‘learn’ to freeze, which then becomes our unconscious habitual default response to any sense of danger or discomfort. And so the cycle gets entrenched in our nervous system, beneath the level of our consciousness.

 

Somatic Experiencing therapy provides a safe and structured method in which to safely and slowly release the stored, unconscious patterns of response to trauma. It also helps to re-educate the body to again feel capable of resisting - or escaping - from the sense of threat associated with the original traumas, and the layers of the post-traumatic stress syndrome that develop without effective trauma resolution process.

 

The good news is that just as the body learns to contract and freeze in response to original traumas (and the layers of stress that build up without us knowing consciously that this is what has happened), the instinctual intelligence of the body overall can repair those programmed responses.

 

Once the trauma response patterns in the nervous system are identified and resolved, the body can quite quickly relearn new ways of being in the world, in which the old unconscious patterns are replaced with new patterns of response to threat and fear (and to the “threat of threat”), so the body, quite literally, relaxes into new ways of being.

 

We now also understand so much more about how old neural pathways in the brain can reform, and old pathways associated with fear responses are literally (and gently) ‘rewired’ through corrective experiences in therapy, and our brain experiences life in new, now un-traumatised ways.

 

As the nervous system continues to relax, your experience of life on a day-to-day level continues to improve. This what Peter Levine means when he says: “Trauma there, trauma where?”. The feelings of being traumatised disappear, both at the deepest unconscious, and the conscious levels.

 

What does a Somatic Experiencing (SE) therapist do?

 

Somatic Experiencing works at the level of the nervous system – including the ‘reptilian brain’ - redefining your entire experiences of living in the world through gentle, patient and focused attention by a trained therapist.

 

There is an important physiological stratum in which we can’t think or rationalize our way out of traumatic experience. We need to be able to experience a corrective sense of repair to damage that has been done on a subconscious level.

 

What an SE therapist does is to help, literally, repair the body’s experience of not being able to fight or flee an attack, or of being caught in ‘freeze’, (as a way of avoiding feeling the impact of traumatic experience/s).

 

Somatic Experiencing re-patterns the body’s experience, so you start to feel, literally – including on a deep physical level - as if the trauma hadn’t even happened.

 

At the same time, from a psychological point of view, we can work together to make meaning, and to achieve a measure of psychological peace, from integrating trauma and its aftermath, so that it becomes manageable, even if it is difficult to imagine that a miracle like that can happen. 

 

The result is that with SE, you can come to feel a level of wellbeing that may have been unimaginable previously. And it helps you build the skills and capability to continue to heal and grow, as your nervous system becomes more and more resilient, flexible and stronger.

 

We can work successfully with all types of trauma, from situational (accidents, violence and abuse), to PTSD, to developmental or attachment trauma. In this way even long-term wounding can be repaired using the tools of SE, supported by the psychotherapeutic relationship.

 

You can find out more about Somatic Experience here.

 

Read more about how Somatic Experiencing helps to heal.

 

I can highly recommend a wonderful talk by Peter Levine (the Founder of Somatic Experiencing) and the Spiritual Teacher Thomas Hubl on Healing Trauma from last year's Science & Nonduality Conference. It's well worth listening to it, as it covers many of the key questions people ask about both healing trauma and spirituality (eg. what is trauma, how long does it take to heal, what's the connection between personal and ancestral trauma, how does it affect relatinship etc):  Healing Trauma & Spiritual Growth

 

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